for the ladies 5.21.08 Wednesday, May 21, 2008
Posted by spontaneouslyclassy in Blurbs.Tags: childrens, circumstances, friends, Friendship, girlfriends, home, love, school, shopping, smile, stress, think, woman, women
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I have stumbled upon some more fun things. Again…I didn’t write these but I really liked them so I wanted to share them with you!
Girlfriends
I’m only as strong as the cocktails I drink, the hairspray I use, and the girlfriends I have.
Here’s to you!
Why do we only have parties for each other when one of us gets married, pregnant, has a birthday, or retires? What would most of us do without our sisters, confidants, and shopping, lunching and traveling girlfriends?
Let’s celebrate each other for each other’s sake!
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I also really liked the following one..I thought it was very empowering and it makes you realize that your life you have isn’t that bad
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They will always be smarter
Their house will be bigger
They will drive a better car
Their children will do better in school
And their husband will fix more things around the house
So let it go
and l♥ve you and your circumstances
Think about it
The prettiest woman in the world can have hell in her heart.
And the most highly favored
woman on your job may be unable to have children
And the richest woman you know
she’s got the car, the house, the clothes….might be lonely
And the World says if “I have not Love, I am nothing”
So, again, love you
Love who you are
Look in the mirror in the morning and smile and say
“I am too blessed to be stressed and too anointed to be disappointed!”
“Winners make things happen.
Losers let things happen.”
you can’t catch me 5.19.08 Monday, May 19, 2008
Posted by spontaneouslyclassy in Life.Tags: boyfriend, caught, drink, drunk, home, honesty, mom, one-night stand, parents, sex, sexcapades, solo, virgin
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I am still living at home. So much time has now passed that spring commencement ceremonies are now in full swing..and to those grads, I say Congrats!
This not having a job thing sucks…a lot. Only one thing sucks more. Living at home.
Now, I don’t really mind living at home, I get along with my parents and my younger sister, I don’t have to pay rent or electric or cable, and I don’t have to buy groceries or pay for my cell phone..there is just one minor little detail that is becoming increasingly major!
While going to college and living away from home I did whatever I wanted whenever I wanted to do it. If I wanted to go out at 11 pm and not return home until much, much later the next day..that was fine (in fact I did that many, many times). But this whole living at home thing has put a damper on my social (and more importantly sexual) life.
Now, don’t get me wrong, I can go out and do as I please..but I just find something so incredibly wrong about going out, getting INCREDIBLY wasted and then coming home. So IF I do go out, I tend to stay at a friends house so that my parents cannot see the level of inebriation that I often get too. They know I drink it isn’t a big secret and if necessary they would come get me from wherever I need to be picked up from because they don’t want me getting into a car with someone who has been drinking.
But really, I am just gonna be honest.
There is NO WAY, I repeat-NO WAY, that I would go out and bring someone home. I am not trying to pretend I am innocent and virginal because, well that just isn’t true but I don’t discuss my sexcapades with the parentals…that is just something they don’t need to know about and there is not way I am willing to share. If it ever is brought up (generally after some drinks around the fire with family and friends) I deny, deny, deny..at all costs. It is just not necessary for them to know anything about that part of my life..mostly because they have never met a boyfriend of mine..and that would bring up another area of questioning about one-night stands (which may or may not have taken place at some point in my past sexual history) that I just don’t need to get into.
My parents aren’t stupid (and when I say parents, I mean my Mom..because she just says what is on her mind). She (my mom) knows that I am no longer a card carrying member of the V-Club…but I have never admitted it…I think she just knows…but I don’t want to admit to it..because then they have concrete evidence that I, in fact, like sex.
Which brings me back to–sexcapades.
Now, I like sex just as much..if not more than anyone I know..and that includes the guys…and I like to have it..A LOT.
I don’t know how people do it. How can anyone go to their parents house and feel comfortable having sex? I find something so incredibly wrong with that. When I finally bring a boyfriend home to meet them..there is NO WAY IN HELL I am doing it in my parents house (ok so I will but whatever). But getting it on with my boyfriend in my parents house is another realm compared to doing the horizontal mambo with someone I just met.
Talk about an awkward next morning. How the hell would I sneak a guy out of my house without my parents knowing? NOT GONNA HAPPEN. Not to mention..my room is right below my parents…I’m just gonna say it…
I am not quiet and I am not very good at being quiet when I should be…and incase you aren’t following what I am saying…THEY WOULD HEAR ME..*shudder*. Talk about embarrassing! My mom once questioned if I had hickeys (I did..gross I know) and I had never been more embarrassed in my life…there is no way that I would live through a “were you having sex last night” talk.
Needless to say, my sex life has suffered 100% since I moved back home. And let me tell you it sucks.
It is weird enough going solo at home..terrified they will hear…
I am not sure what would be worse…them catching me doing it alone or with someone.
I never want to find out.
[sC]
i have lots of suckfriends 5.14.08 Wednesday, May 14, 2008
Posted by spontaneouslyclassy in Life.Tags: 21st century, careers, cellphone, college, email, facebook, friends, IM, lazy, Life, multi-tasking, myspace, phone, suckfriends, technology, time, work
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Is it just me and my pathetic life, or has the concept of friendship gotten completely lost?
It seems that with the hustle and bustle of everyday life, people have forgotten what it means to be a friend. It seems everyone I know, including myself have started a transitional time in their life and it seems are busy just trying to keep their head about the proverbial water.
I understand that most of my friends, like me, are 20-somethings and have just graduated from college and are looking for careers, planning weddings or something of the sort, but when has is become so hard to just say a quick hello?
Now, let me mention and I think this will come as no surprise, THIS IS THE 21st CENTURY…we have amazing things like the internet where we can instant message, facebook and myspace as we so please…and we can text message until our hearts are content..so why with all this technology don’t we feel the need to send a simple hello to a friend.
It isn’t a hard concept to grasp..you have a friend…you haven’t spoken to them in some time..how hard is it to log-in to facebook, search their name..scroll to their wall and write, “hey, haven’t talked to you in awhile…how are you?” or something of the sort…that takes..at most..a minute. Now, I completely understand that people have jobs and are busy and are trying to figure stuff out..but don’t even try to tell me that most people on average check facebook at the very least..once a week…and in that time you can’t see that your oldest and dearest friend is wondering how you are…and you can’t even write them back..but what you can do..is add bumper stickers, update your profile pic, change around your top friends (stupid facebook apps) but you have just been so busy..that you saw said post…read it..but can’t write back..serisouly…are you kidding me?
So, all I am trying to say is, in general, people suck. With all this technology we, as society, have become lazy and..well lazy. There is no reason that you can’t send a quick email. I bet it takes a hell of a lot less time than writing a letter and people used to do that back in the day. Or an IM…no one can be bothered to type a quick ‘hello’ while they are wasting away facebooking…come on, you all know as well as I do we have all mastered the art of ‘multi-tasking’ years ago..lets put it to good use. And almost everyone and their mother have a cell phone these days, do not even TELL me you are too busy while WALKING to class that you can’t scroll through the contacts to catch up, even if it is just for 5 minutes, on your way to class…not that long ago..not everyone had cell phones so the convenience of a telephone wasn’t as easy as pushing “SEND” or the green phone on a cell..but it is now.
I would say that I do my best to keep in touch with people, I try and send emails..(and I am not sure if I am the only one thinking this..but does it bother anyone else when you ask someone a series of questions or make a statement that will illicit a response..to hear NOTHING in return?) and keep in contact as much as I can…but I am about to say screw it.
Screw it all!
“There comes a time when you’re doing something & realize it just doesn’t make sense to keep doing it… you’re not quitting you just know, enough is enough.”
And at this point, enough is enough, I will not exhaust my efforts to people that do not appreciate my friendship.
If those people do not consider me a good enough friend to have the decency to get back to me at some point in the not so distant future..then clearly I do not need them in my life. And I know I am not the only one that feels this way…
And that…is why I have a lot of suckfriends!
[sC]
